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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-03-19 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #3728 ]

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2017-03-19 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess I'll never quite understand this mentality, because I think it's better to have pain after than not to ever feel anything at all.

(Anonymous) 2017-03-20 08:36 am (UTC)(link)
I agree. Lost a friend to suicide and saw the aftermath, what followed was years of agonizing pain and confusion. But, there's no way in hell I'd wish I'd never met her or something like that. She touched my life, and to have those short few years with her, I'd do it all again.

(Also recently had a few months where I actually didn't feel. Lost most of my ability to empathize, it was very disconcerting. There was no feeling of relief, just nothing. )

(Anonymous) 2017-03-20 02:47 pm (UTC)(link)
The pain of losing someone you truly loved lasts forever. Happiness on the other hand is just a temporary state of mind.

(Anonymous) 2017-03-20 04:46 pm (UTC)(link)
If happiness is only a fleeting state of mind. Then what do you really have to lose? And what do you stand to gain?

To me, being safe and not letting people in because it'll hurt to lose them. Well, it sounds like a life half lived.

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[personal profile] maskitheclown 2017-03-20 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh, as someone who will also die alone, I like to say this to myself to feel less miserable :D sour grapes etc :D