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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-04 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3866 ]

⌈ Secret Post #3866 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.



[Black Panther movie]


[Steve Whitmire, former voice and puppeteer for Kermit the Frog]


[Stranger Things]






[linked due to OP warning for sexual activity; Marilyn Manson's music video for "Heart-Shaped Glasses (When the Heart Guides the Hand)"]


[linked due to OP warning for nudity, non con/dub con; Melitta/Gannicus in Spartacus: Gods of the Arena, Ep. 2 "Missio"]


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(Anonymous) 2017-08-05 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
The way I see it, you don't have to like every kink, you don't have to even like the people who have those kinks. Just don't go out of your way to harass or bully or harm people with those kinks.

Lets say I think Doctor Who fans are really annoying. I can think they're annoying! I can think they're kind of dumb for liking the show. But when I start harassing real people over something fictional that doesn't hurt anyone I'm the one who's escalated this and I'm the one who's wrong. Them liking the show is not on the same level as me bullying them for it.

I think that's the heart of YKINMK, recognizing the difference between reality and fiction and recognizing that what you do in reality to real humans is not the same as someone's fiction, no matter how distasteful.