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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-05 04:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #3867 ]

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-06 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
I subscribe to YKINMKATO, but I do think the way many people act about their kinks is not OK. Sometimes people can be very entitled or hypocritical about their kinks, or very disrespectful of other people and their boundaries.

I don't think any kink is inherently bad or wrong, but I do draw a line when people try to involve other people in their kinks without their consent, or behave in ways that infringe on others' boundaries. I also draw a line when people assume everyone must be into their kink, or make assumptions about real people based on their kink.

And I definitely have issues with the way some m/m and f/f fans treat real gay and bi people, or the people who think m/m or f/f is great for porn but think real world same-sex relationships are morally wrong or somehow lesser than straight relationships.