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Re: Random Thoughts
(Anonymous) 2021-07-22 05:53 am (UTC)(link)It's really pissing me off.
Re: Random Thoughts
(Anonymous) 2021-07-22 06:25 am (UTC)(link)Re: Random Thoughts
(Anonymous) 2021-07-22 07:22 am (UTC)(link)Re: Random Thoughts
(Anonymous) 2021-07-22 09:15 am (UTC)(link)That convention thing is so weird considering men in everyday situations almost always get a pass for being super underdressed, but women often get the stink for doing the same. I wonder if the reason it's different at cons is that there are more famous female cosplayers than male. And since they bring in money for the con(and frequently cosplay fairly scantily dressed characters), most female characters' cosplay automatically get pass whether they're being cosplayed by someone famous or not. I'm not sure though, but that's interesting. Sorry to shift topics!
Re: Random Thoughts
But the second a guy is wearing very little and clearly sexualized by way of what little they're wearing or how they're presenting themselves, it breaks people's brains. We can't have scantily-clad men seen the same way as scantily-clad women are always seen! It's intentionally sexual rather than coincidentally sexual, and therefore not family-friendly! *rolls eyes*
Also add into the mix male fragility. Can't for a second admit that the other guy is attractive or you might be *gasp* GAY. Thus, no attractive sexualized men for the rest of us cause alpha male super-straight dudebro noticed he's attractive too and complained to the hotel staff. (I have literally seen THIS happen at conventions.)
Re: Random Thoughts
(Anonymous) 2021-07-22 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Random Thoughts
And usually it is the hotel staff that get complained to, because most of the cons I attend seem to have staff who are fine with equal-opportunity fanservice. Hotel management, you can complain to them about someone showing their buttcheeks in their space and they're on it. Just, you know, people don't usually (though occasionally there are incidents) complain about girls showing buttcheeks or underboob.
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(Anonymous) 2021-07-22 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Random Thoughts
(Anonymous) 2021-07-22 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)