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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-05-22 05:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #7077 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7077 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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02. [SPOILERS for Tiger and Bunny Season 2]




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03. [SPOILERS for Wrestlemania]




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04. [SPOILERS for Invincible (TV show) and maybe comics]




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05. [WARNING for discussion of JKR/transphobia]




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06. [WARNING for discussion of SA, child abuse]
















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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Vent and a question I guess

(Anonymous) 2026-05-23 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I am sensitive to little comments or teasings that come off a bit judgmental so I understand how your friend's comment is annoying.

For me, if a friend makes a comment like "Oh wow you seem so busy. I have to schedule weeks ahead to hang out with you."
I'd take their words seriously and be like, "Ha yeah, if I don't set schedules I won't be able to keep up with my life."
Or a simple, "Is that an issue with you?" Because like...is it? Because I don't know why they're making that comment and I would like clarification.

I'm neurodivergent and grew up with a lot passively aggressive behavior and language, so the best way for me to navigate the world is to be direct. I often try to find ways to soften my need for clarity but sometimes all I can do is be direct.
Also, IME people who don't have ill intent in their question or teasing will be perfectly OK explaining. Whereas someone who was kind of being a jackass tends to act sheepish or defensive and all I have to do is stand there and watch them act like a fool.