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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-06 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #1890 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1890 ⌋


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[identity profile] aiffe.livejournal.com 2012-03-11 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Some people have a problem with smoking because it damages the smoker. I don't. (I do have a problem with cigarette companies making them more addictive so that it's harder for people who want to quit to do so, though! But that's not the smoker's fault.) I really wish devices to stop secondhand smoke were made common and readily available.

I am actually pro-decriminalization of drugs, because I believe in choice. I don't think anyone owes it to anyone else to be healthy. And I think a lot of the drugs that are illegal are not immoral...I actually have a lot of problems with the law. As long as you're not driving or operating heavy machinery while high, I don't see the problem.

I endured various people smoking all over me in silence for years. (Seriously, smoking in a car with closed windows and kids in the back should be against ALL THE LAWS.) Realizing I could get angry about it was like a revelation. That actually, they'd been rude to me first, and there was no reason I should suffer for their pleasure, that that was grossly unfair. I wasn't consenting, but I was being included in their drug use. (I feel the same way about having to breathe in other people's pot, especially since that stays in your system a while and could cause me to fail a drug test.)

So, I get kind of ragey....but it's because it's years of built-up frustration. And also asthma. And I don't stop and read people the riot act, I just sort of hold my breath and glare as I hurry past them. Just going down the street is like navigating an obstacle course. Hold breath here, run to get ahead of the person there. (And if I fail, have fun wheezing and not being able to run, lol!) At bus stops, I have to position myself upwind of everyone (and then always someone lights up like ten feet upwind of me and they're not even waiting for the bus why are they standing there??)

tl;dr: have fun doing whatever you like to your body, just leave mine alone and we're good.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-11 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I get it, but such is life. Sometimes people do things we dislike or affects us but they are not doing anything wrong (nothing illegal or immoral) so it's not okay to be rude to them. Because if everyone is rude to everyone who does something they don't like but that is not illegal or immoral... then we end up killing each other.

[identity profile] aiffe.livejournal.com 2012-03-11 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Me glaring is not illegal or immoral, and is a lot less rude than spreading toxins all over.

I'm not doing anything illegal.

Sometimes people get glared at. Such is life.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-11 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
But glaring is unnecessary rude. I don't think it's correct to be rude to people who are not doing anything wrong.

[identity profile] aiffe.livejournal.com 2012-03-11 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Glaring isn't illegal. Why are you being rude to me for it?

(Anonymous) 2012-03-11 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I am not.