Can I imagine me, Chardmonster, enjoying gin? Not really. I just don't like it.
Can I imagine the act of enjoying gin is pretty similar to how I enjoy bourbon? Absolutely! Both are liquor.
I guess I'm saying I don't understand this disconnect. It's not as if romance is that alien if you swap the genders. We aren't talking about different species here.
Re: Finding it hard to identify with people/characters of a different sexual orientation?
Can I imagine me, Chardmonster, enjoying gin? Not really. I just don't like it.
Can I imagine the act of enjoying gin is pretty similar to how I enjoy bourbon? Absolutely! Both are liquor.
I guess I'm saying I don't understand this disconnect. It's not as if romance is that alien if you swap the genders. We aren't talking about different species here.