9- People are not what they wright. Or read. Maybe they just like the characters and the dynamics between the characters.
21- I... really don't like it when people compare pain between characters and compare how they handle it. It's not a contest when people suffer.
Anyway, I could understand if you mean some really dumb fanbrats who excuse every single bad thing they have ever done with the bad things that happened to them. That would be annoying.
Also, who's the character and what happened with him? He looks neat.
22- Some canon ships are just awesome and you are not boring for liking them.