Ugh I know. They THINK they're being progressive and doing abuse victims a favor, but when in reality they're actually just trivializing abuse and making themsleves look idiotic and ignorant.
If I have to see one more passive aggressive "It's okay to have Pearl be your favorite character...but you HAVE to acknowledge that she's abusive and awful otherwise you support abuse and you're a terrible human being!! uwu" post I'm gonna go crazy.