True. And, more importantly I feel than whether or not someone has had sex, whether they've taken the time to think about and explore their own sexuality. Even someone without a lot of experience can know a lot of things about themselves. But if they've never thought about it, talking isn't going to help much.

Also very true about sex drives. And it will really depend on how important sex is to each person, and you can't always know how important sex is to you until you actually start having it. Like, a person who wants sex more frequently may be okay with having it less frequently if sex is lower down on their priorities. But for some people sex is really important. I mean, I know for myself sex frequency is not necessarily something I'll be willing to negotiate too far on because sex is super important to me. But until you've had experience and had some time to think about it, you won't know those things.