Oh sweet Jebas yes. She was in love with Xander for most of her life, had a deeply serious relationship with Oz, so she clearly found men attractive and suddenly entered college and TURNED gay. WTF? How does one turn gay; you either are or you aren't. I love Tara to pieces, but the character development that resulted for Willow always bothered me. It's like they forgot that entire 3 and a half seasons where she wasn't gay and in fact, was freaked out by her vampself groping her! To make matters worse, after killing the love of her life, the writers thrust this bossy, antagonistic Anti-Tara into her life and Will totally goes for it. Ugh.