75. As long as she's into it? No it doesn't make you a bad feminist. Feminism means women should be able to do what they damn well feel like without influence of society conventions. This includes the good little house wife convention as well as the unshaven man hater convention. I hate that feminism has been so warped that women who agree with it will declare themselves NOT feminist. RANT RANT RANT. (P.S. I want that kind of fic too because they are both so om nom nom nom. Besides, for every time he's in charge, she probably gets to boss him around the next. Which is also hot.)