Personally, if I want my men that girly, I'll just go read some femslash.

(Sadly, I have yet to come across any femslash that details blushing girls and resistance. Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place.)

I think what the secret writer was getting to, though, is that real people of the male gender generally aren't so feminine looking. The only people I know who might fall under such a stereotype are maybe.. uh.. My brothers, but I really don't want to think of them that way.