42. Here. Anti Yaoi Community (http://community.livejournal.com/antiyaoi/) It's a relatively safe place to say stuff like you said in the secret. *Relatively* -- arguments and wank do crop up there (or at least, did, when the com was more active). Some of the complaints lodged are the same as yours.
[ And if ANYBODY responds to me to whine about the community's existance and "WRRRRRRY do you spend your time complaining about something instead of ignoring it?!!!" I'm going to ignore you. I've heard it all already. Why do ANY snark/kvetching sites exist? Complaining is fun. Perhaps the OP needs a place to complain. ]
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[ And if ANYBODY responds to me to whine about the community's existance and "WRRRRRRY do you spend your time complaining about something instead of ignoring it?!!!" I'm going to ignore you. I've heard it all already. Why do ANY snark/kvetching sites exist? Complaining is fun. Perhaps the OP needs a place to complain. ]