Look who's talking. OP said he/she didn't like when they were all girly and effeminate and preferred them act like men, not women. Is that so much to ask? And that OP does not like gay porn, do you expect EVERYONE to like gay porn? What if they're not comfortable with it, or they think it's gross. Get over it, not everyone runs around screaming "OH MY GOD I LOVE GAY PEOPLE WHEEE!" because obviously that's not how the world works. And ironic, how you seem to have thought you were going to settle an issue and have like... peace on earth or something with this one comment, filled with more obscene hate-spewing than the secret. Wow.