68. I don't know. On some of the latest podcasts he's said that NOT telling is a good idea too. Not sure if that reassures you very much though. And it's more that he just personally thinks monogamous relationships don't work. Don't let him get to you! (= I always feel giddy after listening to him for more than one podcast, not upset. Take it all a little less seriously and remember he's giving advice to the people calling in, not everyone.