I was interfered with. I don't talk about it - not from any terrible repression or anything, but I don't really think about it, ever. It's just not relevant, to, well, anything in my life: one shitty moment does not define you for the rest of your life, and it's just so fucking irritating that people seem to think it does.
It especially pisses me off when it's thrown around (in RL as well as fandom) as an excuse to justify why someone is an asshole - like it's a get out of jail free card, or something. (Why do people need a reason to be assholes anyway? Some people just are. Accept it, world.)
But, because I don't wave the abuse flag around, if you try saying that the best thing to do is just get on with your life, people start telling you that you're a heartless bitch.
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I was interfered with. I don't talk about it - not from any terrible repression or anything, but I don't really think about it, ever. It's just not relevant, to, well, anything in my life: one shitty moment does not define you for the rest of your life, and it's just so fucking irritating that people seem to think it does.
It especially pisses me off when it's thrown around (in RL as well as fandom) as an excuse to justify why someone is an asshole - like it's a get out of jail free card, or something. (Why do people need a reason to be assholes anyway? Some people just are. Accept it, world.)
But, because I don't wave the abuse flag around, if you try saying that the best thing to do is just get on with your life, people start telling you that you're a heartless bitch.