I kinda look a lot like an anime character - my body proportions are that kind of unrealistic. So, no matter how I dress or act, someone usually accuses me of being a flirtatious whore/trying to seduce someone/intentionally slutting it up and objectifying myself. THAT GETS REALLY OLD REALLY FAST.
What am I supposed to do, bind my breasts and never bathe again and wear 10 layers of clothes JUST so that I don't accidentally play into someone else's sexual fantasies? *Even when I do that*, people still manage to complain that I'm somehow being a flirtatious ho. Seriously, they *do*. At one point I considered never leaving the house without a mask, because I was so damn sick of it. But you know what? Fuck that. I'm not going to make myself miserable just because other people are assholes, and I'm not going to change who I am because of them.
tl;dr = Fuck you, I'll wear my swimsuit and enjoy my goddamn life. I'm not responsible for other people's asshattery.
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I kinda look a lot like an anime character - my body proportions are that kind of unrealistic. So, no matter how I dress or act, someone usually accuses me of being a flirtatious whore/trying to seduce someone/intentionally slutting it up and objectifying myself. THAT GETS REALLY OLD REALLY FAST.
What am I supposed to do, bind my breasts and never bathe again and wear 10 layers of clothes JUST so that I don't accidentally play into someone else's sexual fantasies? *Even when I do that*, people still manage to complain that I'm somehow being a flirtatious ho. Seriously, they *do*. At one point I considered never leaving the house without a mask, because I was so damn sick of it. But you know what? Fuck that. I'm not going to make myself miserable just because other people are assholes, and I'm not going to change who I am because of them.
tl;dr = Fuck you, I'll wear my swimsuit and enjoy my goddamn life. I'm not responsible for other people's asshattery.