I see no evidence that OP is upset because their life doesn't resemble a TV show. I see no evidence that OP is expecting everyone else to change. I do see evidence of someone (hint: you) being super weird and interpreting a run of the mill opinion as being somehow crazy over the top?

This is FANDOMsecrets. People come here to post and discuss their opinions about various fandom-related subjects. Sometimes peoples' opinions are negative. It doesn't mean they're failing to take "responsibility for [their] own emotions" and honestly, that accusation is so bizarre I'm a little worried for you.