I don't know how familiar you are with this canon, but what I mean by "doing it wrong" is that at least three-quarters of the fic in existence involves either straight-out rape, some form of physical abuse, or shota-con. little_calico's "In Haec Verba" has sold me on the last, though it's not at all my headcanon, but the first two are almost impossible to get to work properly. Also, the rape is either poorly-executed rape kink or angst bait, rather than something that could be explored for character depth. I'm looking for persuasion and emotional abuse, because that seems like a far more effective and IC method of seduction.