I mean... I'm not saying you're wrong re: healthy relationships, but saying you don't care except when people do X, or Y or Z kind of undermines the claim that you don't care. At the very least, I hope you don't break out your list of Unacceptable Ways to Ship when people haven't even mentioned any of those things, otherwise you're exactly the kind of person OP is talking about.
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*proceeds to care very much*
I mean... I'm not saying you're wrong re: healthy relationships, but saying you don't care except when people do X, or Y or Z kind of undermines the claim that you don't care. At the very least, I hope you don't break out your list of Unacceptable Ways to Ship when people haven't even mentioned any of those things, otherwise you're exactly the kind of person OP is talking about.