Hey no it's cool to disagree, it works for you so that's fine. :)

I guess part of me just wanted something a little closer to the more 'found family' vibe that the comics get but they never went there, which alas I suppose but oh well, I can live with the good friendships they do have in the MCU because those are great.

Tbh narritively I do get the impression that the movies think we should consider Steve+Tony closer than they are and I kind of squint at it but otherwise ignore it, it doesn't really bother me.