179. I'm like you - mid-20's and still a virgin. I was half-forced to watch the movie at a concert venue and it was better than I thought it'd be. The one thing I hang on to right now is that even though I have never had sex, I've also never have had a sexual encounter that I really didn't want to have, and no regrets about who I've shared by body with. My dignity is still intact.

182. I'm not here to judge you or laugh at you, because fandom is how I'm living these days too, but the meatspace offers some intangibles that you can't get through fandom, namely intimacy. Definitely don't let people make you feel guilty, but don't totally count out dating either.