Too big 2 - I'm a Zutarian so by all measures I should hate Aang. I don't. I hate that he got somethings too easily, but I was fine up until season 3, particularly the end of it. His intent not to kill Ozai is something to be admired. So while I might never want to emulate him myself, it's not like he doesn't have admirable characteristics. Hopefully that made some sense... even if you're in a Zutarian community maybe just say what you admire about him? Hope it helps!