101- Seriously. This is me too. I think someone should make a "I fail at fandoms" group.
110- You really should try what you said. There's no reason to be scared about it; she'll probably really enjoy it, and probably wishes you two were closer too. I am 10 and 13 years older than my siblings, and I find ways to bond with them. With my brother (ten years difference) it was impressing him with my vast knowledge of pokemon (that resulted in my past obbsession) and letting him talk to me about all the new ones. With the sister that is 13 years younger, I try to be interested in her things, like Hannah Montana/Jonas Brothers/HSM (she's barely six, so cut her some slack) and it's really brought us together. It's definitely not to late.
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110- You really should try what you said. There's no reason to be scared about it; she'll probably really enjoy it, and probably wishes you two were closer too. I am 10 and 13 years older than my siblings, and I find ways to bond with them. With my brother (ten years difference) it was impressing him with my vast knowledge of pokemon (that resulted in my past obbsession) and letting him talk to me about all the new ones. With the sister that is 13 years younger, I try to be interested in her things, like Hannah Montana/Jonas Brothers/HSM (she's barely six, so cut her some slack) and it's really brought us together. It's definitely not to late.