101. "Don't want to barge in" eh? You'll never make friends with this kind of attitude. People like others that they think are confident, and you sound anything but. You matter too, so prove it to others by being willing to seek them out and talk to them. Not wanting to 'barge in' holding you back, and i bet it won't be seen as barging in 8 times out of 10. It's the internet, people won't know you're there if you don't let them know, and they won't know you want to talk if you don't go talk to them yourself. Take a little responsibility for yourself, and take some action.