I feel you. Like... I don't necessarily find it offensive, depending on who puts it together-- certainly there are other gay (and European) fans who poke gentle fun at themselves along with a character when they joke about certain stereotypes. But the videos just... there's rarely enough to stretch the joke out long enough for the song without just getting TIRED. When the video maker tries to fit the cast of characters to all the different singing roles, it often feels forced, but when it's an animatic rather than clips, then not having characters in the different roles feels pointless...