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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-29 06:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #4863 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4863 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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["Doc" Antle from the Tiger King documentary]


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[She-Ra]


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(Bosch)


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[Marcella]


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[Eternal Love aka "Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms"]


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[Shaman King]















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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 17 secrets from Secret Submission Post #696.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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What was the point then?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
Went to check on where my stimulus money was given that others seem to have had theirs deposited. It is telling me my check will be mailed. But when I filled in my info it asked for the bank account information of the account I wanted it deposited into. What was the point of asking that if they are then going to mail me a check?

Why does our government have to make everything ten times more difficult than it has to be? Also, I don't want a check with Donald Trump's signature on it.
greghousesgf: (Hugh SF Music)

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2020-04-30 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
this!!

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* Thank you so much. I felt really dumb posting this because my brain was going "Why should you be praised up for getting out of something that you voluntarily got yourself into?" I didn't expect people to be so supportive. I really appreciate it. Thank you. Yours are the first words of motivation/encouragement that I've had all week. Thank you. <3
greghousesgf: (Hugh Smile)

Re: Non-fandom secrets and confessions

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2020-04-30 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
this proves the Trumpazoids are even stupider than I thought if they're drinking bleach.

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
+1 to this. My addiction was alcohol, not cocaine, but the general principle is the same: that is a bouncy fuckin wagon when you first get on it. Some people do manage to hold on for dear life and make it through those bumps, and that's awesome too, but there is exactly zero shame in getting jolted off. The important part is that you keep working your way back up onto it. Because the ride does even out over time. And it's going to a place that is 100% worth the trek to get to.

I believe in you, anon. You can do this.
greghousesgf: (Jeeves Awesome)

Re: Non-fandom secrets and confessions

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2020-04-30 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
what happened after you called the cops?
The only time I called the cops on my neighbors is when they left a baby wandering around alone in the hall.
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Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-04-30 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, everybody does stuff that's less than awesome. It sucks, but you *recognized* that it's not what you want going forward, and you're doing something about it. That's a good and commendable thing.

*smish*

Re: Non-fandom secrets and confessions

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
I'd had a long post typed about my own situation, but I don't want to seem like I'm trying to preach or anything, so the short version:

Like the other person mentioned, you can totally lose weight just by eating less of the things you currently eat. I had in my head at one point that it was going to be completely impossible to lose weight without giving up everything I love and only eating kale and seaweed and I just couldn't do that and so there was no point in even attempting to lose weight.

It's totally possible, though. You can still eat everything you love, just eat less of it. The thing that helped me the most at first was a concept called "intuitive eating" (some places call it "normal eating"). Basically, it teaches you how to actually recognize when you're full and stop eating (at first I was like "what do you mean, of course I know when I'm full" but there's a difference between full and overfull/sick, and the latter is where I was always at before).

I don't know the policy about linking things here, but if you go to b-ok.cc and search "intuitive eating" in the search bar, you'll find the main book that was written about this (it's called "Intuitive Eating", by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch). Also search for "I Can Make You Thin" on that site (author is Paul McKenna). Read those books, and follow what they tell you. Losing weight seems like such a daunting, overwhelming thing, but they really helped me a lot, and hopefully will help you too!

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much. <3 This week has felt like a struggle and the lack of feedback from the boyfriend has been a bit rough. I'd love to check in if it wouldn't drag everyone's mood down too much. I felt awful enough posting such a downer post about this. :(

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. *squishy hugs* I don't want to drag everyone here down with my drama but I will try and check in. x

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
That's awesome, thank you so much. This is a big help. <3

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
Aww, thank you! <3 And I hope your nephew is doing better now! It has been rough having it right in front of me and not being able to have it. :|

Re: Non-fandom secrets and confessions

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, they are. Poison control centers across the country have had a huge spike in calls about it since his comments (which your wording makes me think you might not have seen, in which case, here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yo6KSIhc58A ).

Re: What was the point then?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
There's no signature, at least there wasn't on ours. Printed name, yes, but no sig.

Sorry it's been such a pain tho :/

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
That means a lot, thank you so much. <3 I don't want to drag the mood here down every night, I just felt so lonely and overwhelmed tonight. Thank you so much for listening to me. x

Re: Non-fandom secrets and confessions

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I didn't even think of that. Now I'm imagining some poor old lady dying because her dumbass grandson insists that all the scientists are wrong and the very stable genius is the only one who has the cure. Uggghhh.

Re: What was the point then?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Don't worry, it's not even his money anyway.

You can alter an object's appearance but it doesn't change what it is.

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much. <3 I don't feel I deserve any luck or kindness since I got myself into this hole myself, but it means a lot to me. I will look into online meetings near me. Thank you.

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for the links! These could be a huge help. I don't deserve it but thank you. It means so much to me. <3

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
I'm actually crying. Thank you so, so much. I can't even say how much that means to me right now. *smish!*
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Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-04-30 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
I hope you feel you can keep checking in with us!
greghousesgf: (Jeeves Awesome)

Re: Non-fandom secrets and confessions

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2020-04-30 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
maybe he'll drink bleach himself and kack it

Re: Favorite non-cop detective shows

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
my very thoughts

Re: Favorite non-cop detective shows

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
you know the theme song just played in my head at the very sight of the name

Re: Advice for drug detoxing?

(Anonymous) 2020-04-30 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
I have no advice, but I'm here to support you anon! I'm proud of you for being clean for a week -- I have no doubt it was difficult -- but you did it! I hear it takes one day at a time, so I think you're doing well :]

Good for you anon, I'm proud of you! You know where to come if you feel like you need support or need to check in! Would you like a weekly check in? I know it sounds weird, and we're all just strangers on the internet, but I like to think we're all here to help each other, and it helps to know someone is thinking of you and your progress.

<3 Much love, you can do this :]

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