Really though, I don't think what you're doing now is going to change his mind... and if it does, it kinda says something about how he views relationships (which isn't good and means you probably shouldn't stick around with him anyway). I think you need to reevaluate your own view of relationships too. If they're based on looks only, they're bound to be unfufilling. And it's unfair to expect someone else to play out your fantasies of a fictional character, because they're not him. This guy may just have been out for casual sex, when obviously it wasn't just that for you - perhaps next time you can try to make your intentions more clear to minimize any miscommunication and false assumptions.
Good luck with everything, I hope you find someone who likes you for being you. :)
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Really though, I don't think what you're doing now is going to change his mind... and if it does, it kinda says something about how he views relationships (which isn't good and means you probably shouldn't stick around with him anyway). I think you need to reevaluate your own view of relationships too. If they're based on looks only, they're bound to be unfufilling. And it's unfair to expect someone else to play out your fantasies of a fictional character, because they're not him. This guy may just have been out for casual sex, when obviously it wasn't just that for you - perhaps next time you can try to make your intentions more clear to minimize any miscommunication and false assumptions.
Good luck with everything, I hope you find someone who likes you for being you. :)