Anyway, just to add. In the same way I don't feel very comfortable writing, say, trans characters because I don't have that experience either. Or writing, IDK, Italian characters because I'm not Italian either. If I do that I'll at least do my research, talk to Italians and try to figure out and all that, because I don't want to write something that is more fetichistic than comfortable or relatable for those groups of people. And some writers are like this. I hope this made sense.