Okay, for everyone with "oh noes, I'm a bad feminist" secrets... There are two types of radical feminists. (This is ignoring the liberal feminists, who would be pretty laid-back themselves). There's the "radical-culturist" ones, who believe that lesbian sex is the only sex that's never demeaning and say all womanliness is good, women are inherently better than men, porn is bad, etc.

There's also the "radical-libertarians", who say androgyny is better since traits are inherently good or bad, not inherently masculine or feminine. They also say people should be able to enjoy whatever type of porn they want, be it demeaning or whatever, because it's their business and their kinks.

So all those "gaah, I have rape fantasy" people? Not being bad feminists. Feminists can have submission kinks too.