[Picture is Youji Katou and Kyousuke Iwaki from the OVA adaptation of the yaoi manga "Haru wo Daiteita" or "Embracing Love". Youji Katou is a man with light skin and blond hair reaching his chin. Kyousuke Iwaki is a man with light skin and short dark hair. They are both naked muscular men arguing.]

It's sexy when you roleplay someone who actually fights back to top. Sadly, it never happens.