I agree that there are plently of people that stay closeted because they can't deal with the fear of being gay, i really do. But i haven't been in that particular situation before, so i can't completely understand how someone like that would feel, but i grew up in a place where it was alright to be different and express who you are, so i've never hard to experience something like that. I was just brought up to be proud of who i was and what i am, so i guess im slightly ignorant towards the idea of 'not being able to express yourself' type thing. Sorry if i offended you.