I IMed someone I think might be you, so if it was you.. yeah.

Please IM me or email me. In case it's not me you're thinking of, don't tell about the secret... how about this - say "are you a pingpong table"? I know it's silly, but that's the only code I could think of. Because if you're who I think you might be, I do want to talk, especially as the things that drove you up the wall may very well be some of the same problems I had. I have regrets too. :/