No word in particular really. And yes, sex scenes.

It's more of just keeping a watchful eye on word choice in certain narration. Like ones that have that more formal tone and characters, yet they throw a cock in there. Or a pussy, too, ngl.

I guess as a woman, my mind fills in the gaps for me. You can have simple euphemisms and my mind will still be filling in SEXY COCK without it being written out. IDK, it's hard to explain.