It's not something to be ashamed of wanting, I believe that when you RP, sure they are characters.. but their are people behind the characters and they are just as if not more so interesting. So I would just keep trying to get to know her no matter what, just as her in between posts little get to know you questions, the most random things I think can spur conversation. And well I wish you luck.

BTW THANK YOU FOR THE PICTURE! I WILL TREASURE IT IN MY YURI FOLDER FOREVER! *hugs*