I just have a problem with resenting half the population (or yourself) because of poor writing.
I do agree that female characters get shafted a lot, but... to have problems with being a female because of this? It's such a weirdly twisted concept, a la "the media is misogynistic, and because of this, I am going to develop a misogynistic streak." There is a self-loathing there that makes me kind of uncomfortable.

Self-loathing is so 2006, guys.