3. So because I'm going to school instead of kicking ass, haven't saved the world singlehandedly, have emotions and feelings, and have had various boyfriends, I'm automatically stereotypical, boring, generic, and oversexed?

Wow. That just makes me want to shake your hand enthusiastically for revealing this to me! I've just GOT to change into a more dynamic and strong character so that you won't feel bad about your gender!