To be frank, I don't agree with your sentiment much, OP-but I find myself standing with you, a bit, if only because the absurd amount of backlash that your secret received makes my hackles stand up.

Generally, I find that I actually enjoy playing with guys more if only because they tend to be more serious about what we're doing, and I don't really see what's wrong with that. But at the same time, having friends who are girls is different from having friends who are guys, and I understand why you might be frustrated with that.

Overall, I think I disagree with you, but the fucking vitriolic response generated makes me really want to throw down for you, lol. :) Whatever, haters gonna hate, etc. Good luck finding people you want to play with.