You quite enthusiastically remove your clothes, and his.
You stroke him in places that are clearly sexual.
Lots of kissing and petting ensues.
Sex ensues, but you don't like that.
My question is: how was that man , in all reasonable terms, supposed to know you didn't want it...unless you in some way stated so at the time?
Sex is often a flow of things...and in realistic situations, I've never known anyone to specifically ask permission for every step (can I take off your bra? - Can I kiss your thigh?) , unless it was like the first time you were doing something specific...
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Assume you are in bed with a man.
You quite enthusiastically remove your clothes, and his.
You stroke him in places that are clearly sexual.
Lots of kissing and petting ensues.
Sex ensues, but you don't like that.
My question is: how was that man , in all reasonable terms, supposed to know you didn't want it...unless you in some way stated so at the time?
Sex is often a flow of things...and in realistic situations, I've never known anyone to specifically ask permission for every step (can I take off your bra? - Can I kiss your thigh?) , unless it was like the first time you were doing something specific...