He's supposed to know I don't want it by asking me about having sex. Seems pretty cut and dry to me.
Assume you are in a kitchen with a man. You open up the fridge. Serve him a nice piece of turkey. You all get to eat and have nice dinnertime. But then he eats your cake, that you were saving for your kids b-day.
The key is...ask first. Somehow we understand that with everything EXCEPT woman's body. "Oh why should I have to ask for permission? No one else asks for permission!"
Its bs. It doesn't belong to you, it doesn't belong to him. Get over it. Regardless if she ever said "no" (hard to do when you are sleeping), she never gave him permission to do that sort of thing, so the "no" would be a moot point (only noteworthy if she gave him permission earlier).
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Assume you are in a kitchen with a man.
You open up the fridge.
Serve him a nice piece of turkey.
You all get to eat and have nice dinnertime.
But then he eats your cake, that you were saving for your kids b-day.
The key is...ask first. Somehow we understand that with everything EXCEPT woman's body. "Oh why should I have to ask for permission? No one else asks for permission!"
Its bs. It doesn't belong to you, it doesn't belong to him. Get over it. Regardless if she ever said "no" (hard to do when you are sleeping), she never gave him permission to do that sort of thing, so the "no" would be a moot point (only noteworthy if she gave him permission earlier).