This is why I don't consider myself a part of the fandom, despite enjoying the show and characters. There is a right and a wrong time for everything, and like 99.9% of them are crazy fangirls with no concept of social clues or reality. I cannot deal.

I'm sorry, OP. That's horrible. Their thoughts should be with YOU and Japan's wellbeing, not with whatever goofy little fantasies they can dream up over tragedies occurring to real people.