you see, i'm the exact opposite! I want people to ship my characters, and to want them be with someone different then who they end up with. And I want people to put m/m characters who are straight together because it's fun. I had so much fun doing it with fandoms i like, i would want people to have fun with my creations and recreate them how they want.
But really, I would just be happy with what ever fans I got. If i could just reach one person with my writing i think they would be enough.