Someone wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets 2011-04-06 12:06 am (UTC)

Re: Here's a Question

But Buffy, IIRC, didn't then go on to loudly state to anyone who would listen that she was 100% all about the dick, and the very pinnacle of heterosexuality.

If she had then I would have considered that BS.

Sexuality is a very complicated and fluid thing, which is one of the reasons why it bothered me that Willow was all of the sudden "GAY NOW," despite the fact that, in season four, WHEN SHE WAS WITH TARA, she said that she still had feelings for Oz, and indicated that she would be a-ok with continuing their relationship in the future, if it was feasible.

Which is why I don't buy the "She only discovered her sexuality when she was with Tara!" thing, because Willow never says that her previous relationships/crushes/sexual feelings for men were anything lesser, and since we saw them they certainly didn't show that, so as they didn't show OR tell us this stuff, her just stating how much of a 100% lesbian she is just kind of rings hollow to me.

It just kind of came off to me as, "Since I am with a woman now, that must make me a lesbian."

(And now time for a stupid and hopefully redundant disclaimer: Obviously none of this stuff applies to real people, because real people aren't fictional)

ANYWAYS, that arc in the comics just made me ship Willow/Buffy. Anyone?

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