Agreed. I think that's why you often see secrets/comments here about people being surprised to be having such a great experience in a fandom that they've only just entered but is well-established. Because there are so many people falling over themselves to talk about how nonstop batshit crazy the Supernatural/Glee/My Little Pony/whatever fandom is and how above it they are, that people get this warped idea of those fandoms and think there are no safe spaces or fun communities to hang out in.