Oh, I know, I'm just stating the other side. Yes, ditching good friends isn't right. But not all of those secrets specifically said "they are the best friends I've ever had but I ditch them for fandom." So I agree with your point, but I just think you have to keep in mind that for some people, fandom friends are the only true friends they've got. (However, yes, it is sad when people ditch the real world in general.)