1. Well, your hobbies shouldn't be any body's business, unless it affects them. I certainly wouldn't mention my hobbies to people I first meet. Never seemed like a good idea to me. Also, it's not always a good idea to date someone with the exact same interests anyway. Gets boring. As for "losers", all I know is that many of the fans are in fact total dickheads. I'm sure you'll find the right person someday.