Reaching? You mean like blaming Asami finding out from Bolin all on Mako? It wasn't as if she asked Mako about his behavior. She went behind his back and FORCED his younger brother to do it. It was cowardly and selfish on her part. Bolin has nothing to do with her relationship drama, and she shouldn't have forced him to get involved because she couldn't do the mature thing and ask her own boyfriend about it.