My issue here is that what I usually see is gays and lesbians playing Oppression Olympics with this. "Oh, you could date someone of the opposite sex, so you aren't as oppressed as me, so you don't really belong in queer spaces!" Yeah. That's what I see. All the goddamn time. So is it any wonder that quite a few bisexuals feel completely left out of everything? We have a slight advantage that may or may not actually benefit us in the end, and are often alienated from queer spaces because of it.