Honestly, though, I have to question why you even care that bisexuals have some alleged advantage. That is almost always a launch point for the "your problems aren't as bad as mine weh weh" sort of thing. That's also why I brought up Oppression Olympics; that's...what worrying about that is. Who fucking cares if bisexuals have the possibility of some level of acceptance, at the cost of our identities, that may or may not even come to be and thus may not ever benefit us? Bisexuals are still oppressed. Who the fuck cares if we're "less" oppressed? Mostly just people who want to alienate us or trivialize our problems because we're not "oppressed enough".

Also seriously, I question this idea of bisexuals "playing Oppression Olympics". Because being upset about the aforementioned attitudes some gays and lesbians have is not Oppression Olympics. It's indignation at being treated like shit by people who should understand. Maybe you have actually run into a bisexual or two playing the "weh weh more oppressed than you" card, I don't know, but I wouldn't be surprised if that wasn't actually the case. Just sayin'.